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Lithos

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22. the management company f*d up....
Sat Sep 2, 2023, 08:35 PM
Sep 2023

Bad program management on their part. There should have been some system of positive checks where they knew everyone had gotten their new code and an outreach for those who did not.

For those who avoid a major communication tool such as the Internet or Smart Phones - that is your choice. It is much like those in a large town who opt out of car ownership. Sometimes, you can get away with it without any issues, provided there are backup systems such as mass transit, but most times, you choose to live with the consequences.

Unfortunately, our society has good and bad actors. This means creating systems that generate a sufficiently strong defense that these bad actors go elsewhere for easier pickings. Right or wrong, it is in your best interest to create chaos by using individual passwords and changing them periodically. If you are not technologically capable, get something like 1Password to generate and safely store your passwords. Do not use LastPass as it has proven ill-managed. If you are technically capable, you probably have a system for your needs. I typically use Dec 26th or New Year's Day to change my passwords - more frequently if I hear of a breach.

Get used to the idea you have no privacy anymore. You have enough data exhaust that most statistical models can figure out your likes and dislikes to a rather uncanny level.

And spend the time to learn how to use things. You do not have to learn programming or even advanced techniques - but there are easily available videos out there explaining basic use.

Before I get voted off the island for all of this, yes, I know this is hard. However, I am a Baby boomer (ask my kids) who makes a very good living in IT and easily runs rings around the digital generation. Adopt a learning mindset, invest an hour or two each week, and the "compound interest" will pay off.


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Digital Ageism [View all] question everything Sep 2023 OP
I do not have a cell phone cyclonefence Sep 2023 #1
You bring up a good point. usonian Sep 2023 #5
I fully sympathize with the 'digital coupons' gadgetry! 70sEraVet Sep 2023 #8
After awhile my wife was able to master the digital coupon crap. Mr.Bill Sep 2023 #13
I get a daily email from the grocery store crud Sep 2023 #23
🍷 Joinfortmill Sep 2023 #29
I was visiting my daughter's place. usonian Sep 2023 #2
Whew! So glad they accommodated George! MLAA Sep 2023 #3
I yelled at a Rite Aide clerk (I'm sorry still) Grasswire2 Sep 2023 #38
Was anyone ever able to explain why they didn't/couldn't honor their advertising? MLAA Sep 2023 #39
No. And I yelled because there were two or three staffers there at the time. Grasswire2 Sep 2023 #40
Crazy! MLAA Sep 2023 #41
I have a story about this too. My stepdad, who is 89, Croney Sep 2023 #4
I finally asked my daughter-in-law to deal with two apps I had a terrible time with. Delmette2.0 Sep 2023 #6
When your sight goes, EVERYTHING goes Warpy Sep 2023 #7
So sorry about this. The world is aimed at everyone functions with slight correction question everything Sep 2023 #10
I haven't turned a TV on in over a year. Warpy Sep 2023 #15
Wife sits real close to the TV Aussie105 Sep 2023 #18
I'm not challenged by the digital shift -- byronius Sep 2023 #9
I can beat the 'old' part! Aussie105 Sep 2023 #19
So familiar. The smallest things take up more room. byronius Sep 2023 #36
I draw the line at digital coupons The Wizard Sep 2023 #11
Streaming services AverageOldGuy Sep 2023 #12
It's the new way . . . Aussie105 Sep 2023 #20
So glad your friend Georgecna again open his door with a key. We should have choices in things. nt iluvtennis Sep 2023 #14
My generational beef with these young people's obsession with smartass phone. lambchopp59 Sep 2023 #16
Now my medical groups' portal has been srewwed multigraincracker Sep 2023 #17
I must admit paying car registration on line Aussie105 Sep 2023 #21
the management company f*d up.... Lithos Sep 2023 #22
I generally spend a few hours each week crud Sep 2023 #24
Yeah, that happens Lithos Sep 2023 #30
What I'm sick of is constantly being bugged to download yet another app. ShazzieB Sep 2023 #25
Glad this had a happy ending. LoisB Sep 2023 #26
My beef is with the companies that think they don't need a browser app, just a phone app teach1st Sep 2023 #27
Hmmm - a couple of questions Lithos Sep 2023 #31
The attachments are PDF teach1st Sep 2023 #33
Same here. My iPhone, which I got less than three years ago, is for calling, texting question everything Sep 2023 #34
Happy ending. You are a good friend. Joinfortmill Sep 2023 #28
Unless their name is Lisa Napoli Lithos Sep 2023 #32
... question everything Sep 2023 #35
Good article. This entire thread should be sent to AARP. IcyPeas Sep 2023 #42
Context is everything ;) Pluvious Sep 2023 #37
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