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Haggis for Breakfast

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12. What infuriates me the most here is this
Wed Apr 10, 2019, 10:37 PM
Apr 2019

When the park employee tells him he can't park there, he responds that he is disabled and she says:

"I can see that you're not."


Exactly HOW can she "see" that ?

NOT ALL DISABILITIES ARE VISIBLE.

I have dealt with this everyday for 38 years now. I am a disabled vet (100%). You cannot see my disability. No one can see my disability. But it can take me down to my knees in the blink of an eye.

I have resisted getting an HP for just this reason. I have no patience, tact or civility for dealing with arrogant, ignorant people who think they have x-ray vision or calibrated eye-balls or some special talent for discerning disabilities. But I am beginning to have problems that may just require me to get one.

I don't know how I will deal with such people who challenge me.

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