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kickysnana

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1. "Mama said there would be days like this..."
Wed Jun 26, 2013, 09:40 PM
Jun 2013

Whether the relationship was a semi-disaster or not I think most people have left over feelings when any relationship ends and some days are worse than others.

It sounds like you are doing positive things. Don't beat yourself up for how you feel only what you do about it.

I had to go through this with a new therapist yesterday and wish there was a vulcan mind meld so I didn't have to remember and talk about it or stir up all those conflicting feelings so the therapist could see where I was coming from.

You never know what tomorrow will bring a new friend, a new love. Remember to be a good friend to yourself too, even when you feel like eeyore.

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"Mama said there would be days like this..." kickysnana Jun 2013 #1
thank you kickysnana BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2013 #2
The solution to your problem may not be all that complicated Tobin S. Jun 2013 #3
yeah...I have absolutely declared that I will be open to nice guys BlancheSplanchnik Jun 2013 #4
I have tended to be obcessive libodem Jul 2013 #5
yeah..that's a good one. BlancheSplanchnik Jul 2013 #8
I did have one around here libodem Jul 2013 #9
'tis. BlancheSplanchnik Jul 2013 #10
If there were good 100 men in a room libodem Jul 2013 #11
I'm going to AlAnon to learn how to have r-hips with non-alkies. BlancheSplanchnik Jul 2013 #12
You're going to have to work through the five stages of grief Fumesucker Jul 2013 #6
yeah... BlancheSplanchnik Jul 2013 #7
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