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In reply to the discussion: List of prominent anti-pornographers [View all]libodem
(19,288 posts)Everything in moderation. I wonder what constitutes a 'problem'? Seems like some wives have a nervous breakdown when they find out the husband does it. It becomes such an issue that they practically feel cheated on. Then I suspect the husband, 'promises' to comply with a request to abstain. If he gets 'caught' again, does that mean a dealbreaker and divorce?
Single guys would be different? Nobody cares but them.
They might feel guilty for some reason and find they can't quit? I'm making up stuff here. But I hear you on the compulsion vs addiction. Not everything is an addiction. Especially the whole sex addiction angle for say, cheating behavior.
I just thought the article had some points about requiring more and different stimuli to feel something. It could make real intimate relations less gratifying if one needed it to get interested. I understand the visual route for stimulation but it seems so shallow compared to the deapth of having your mind stimulated with ideas and concepts and understanding that creat excitement mentally between two people. I need the intellectual stimulation or its a no go. Not the face. Not the body. It's the mental and the emotional. The connection.
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