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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsSomething to consider for New Year's Resolutions
I have the same two important New Year's Resolution every single new year.
1. Avoid toxic people
2. Avoid MAGA
These two are not always the one and the same.
I'm going to add this one to my list as well.

Wifes husband
(690 posts)Last edited Mon Dec 29, 2025, 06:39 PM - Edit history (1)
The word police around here especially irritate me. I believe they inhibit people with valid comments from posting.
LuckyCharms
(21,567 posts)If you correct someone about a typo, they may never post again.
If you are derisive about something they are passionate about, they may never post again.
Niagara
(11,441 posts)They obviously weren't taught any manners. I believe it's also a way for them to feel superior over other people.
I agree. It also hinders discussions here on DU.
Now if I see an important mistake, I'll PM the other person and gently let them know because I was brought up with tact and manners.
Please know that we're all not like that, Wifes husband.
anciano
(2,179 posts)Thank you.
debm55
(55,052 posts)contact with toxic people.
Niagara
(11,441 posts)True Dough
(25,719 posts)ambushing your thread!
I'd say sorry about that, but as a toxic jerk, I cannot go there!
Niagara
(11,441 posts)mountain grammy
(28,653 posts)I'm no buying it True!
True Dough
(25,719 posts)I promise, I will. Maybe it will be my New Year's resolution!
Niagara
(11,441 posts)Let's not rush things!
True Dough
(25,719 posts)I expect to turn green soon and get some big ol' muscles popping!
Niagara
(11,441 posts)don't make me angry. You wouldn't like me when I'm angry.
AllaN01Bear
(28,538 posts)Niagara
(11,441 posts)mountain grammy
(28,653 posts)Nice post Niagara!
Niagara
(11,441 posts)I think sometimes all of us forget this sound advice.
Myself included.