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Joinfortmill

(20,389 posts)
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 11:24 AM Yesterday

If Cops Demand Your Window Down, DO THIS...



My words: Given the environment we now live in, you never know what's going to happen out there. The most important step is: When asked to exit your car, do so and LOCK the door behind you.

Marc breaks down:
– When rolling your window down actually helps you
– Why refusing to exit your car is a huge mistake
The exit-and-lock strategy that keeps cops out of your vehicle
– Exactly what to say (and NOT say) on the roadside
– How to deny consent the right way

This isn’t about arguing with police.
It’s about protecting your rights and giving your lawyer something to work with later.
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If Cops Demand Your Window Down, DO THIS... (Original Post) Joinfortmill Yesterday OP
What worries me is that these roid-raging thugs will interpret someone getting out as a threat-- viva la Yesterday #1
You only get out if they tell you to nt EX500rider Yesterday #6
Seldom do I watch YouTube's because they take too long to get to the point..but this was outstanding, easy to watch and Ninga Yesterday #2
Here is a little bit different take on this... NowsTheTime Yesterday #3
Transcript. If you can't copy and paste or print out a video. usonian 23 hrs ago #13
really good information Roc2020 Yesterday #4
not necessarily good information cab67 Yesterday #5
Basically stay in the car with window down & hands in sight unless told to exit EX500rider 23 hrs ago #7
When ordered to get out of your car, lock the door behind you. It becomes another 4th Amendment blockade and the cops OMGWTF 23 hrs ago #14
If they don't have permission or probable cause EX500rider 21 hrs ago #19
If they can make up any reason to arrest you Cerulean Southpaw 4 hrs ago #36
Yeah, if I haven't had any dopers in my car, I don't see any reason for not letting them search it RandomNumbers 1 hr ago #41
It looks like an advertisement. I say situational awareness is the first rule of self defense. littlemissmartypants 23 hrs ago #8
In what neighborhood? Cirsium 23 hrs ago #9
+1 leftstreet 20 hrs ago #20
Would be nice to have a written list of do's and don't's . . . AverageOldGuy 23 hrs ago #10
Here you go. Jedi Guy 20 hrs ago #21
I used to get a lot of reels about how people act when a cop pulls them over, or otherwise approaches them. mucholderthandirt 17 hrs ago #24
To the best of my knowledge, ICE aren't cops in the way we normally think of them. Jedi Guy 8 hrs ago #34
If you rolled your window, can they just reach in and unlock the car? question everything 11 hrs ago #31
They could, yes. Jedi Guy 8 hrs ago #33
Question - if it's likely a traffic stop, why not just roll down the window before they even walk up? RandomNumbers 1 hr ago #43
Oh, common sense Fla_Democrat 54 min ago #44
Good luck rolling the window up & locking the door ...instead simply state that "I do not concent to any searches" NowsTheTime 23 hrs ago #11
Yes, You start rolling up your windows before getting out..... Zackzzzz 22 hrs ago #18
Transcript, in case you can'r memorize videos. usonian 23 hrs ago #12
So we should assume they won't prevent us from closing the door? Raven123 23 hrs ago #15
Can't they just unlock the door Mossfern 23 hrs ago #16
The exception to everything he said.... Staph 22 hrs ago #17
Also bad advice in my opinion EX500rider 18 hrs ago #23
I live in a rural area where the closest populated area might be 10 miles away. MichMan 14 hrs ago #26
I haven't forgotten the murder of Cara Knott by on-duty CHP Craig Peyer in 1986 chia 14 hrs ago #27
I don't find it very good advice in my opinion EX500rider 18 hrs ago #22
I liked Chris Rock's video better Polybius 14 hrs ago #25
That's a good one! 👍nt Raine 9 hrs ago #32
It is probably good legal advice for a routine traffic stop, but it will not work with ICE Bluetus 14 hrs ago #28
"Understand that in every state AFAIK, assault does not require any physical contact." MichMan 13 hrs ago #29
That is the law. But the difference is the police don't get to decide that. Bluetus 12 hrs ago #30
I was merely responding to your hypothetical with another one MichMan 2 hrs ago #37
It is not a hypothetical Bluetus 2 hrs ago #38
OK MichMan 2 hrs ago #39
I never said that Bluetus 1 hr ago #40
Several elected officials have talked about arresting ICE agents "If they break laws" MichMan 1 hr ago #42
I have already identified the laws for you. There are many others Bluetus 49 min ago #45
I guess we just disagree MichMan 38 min ago #46
Won't happen in reality. RandiFan1290 5 hrs ago #35

viva la

(4,539 posts)
1. What worries me is that these roid-raging thugs will interpret someone getting out as a threat--
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 11:38 AM
Yesterday

and shoot you or arrest you. Remember the young black woman Sandra Bland who was charged with "resisting arrest and assault" and later found hanged in her cell? The "officer" saw her every gesture and movement as "resistance".

Ninga

(8,998 posts)
2. Seldom do I watch YouTube's because they take too long to get to the point..but this was outstanding, easy to watch and
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 11:43 AM
Yesterday

his explanations clear. Many thanks!

cab67

(3,662 posts)
5. not necessarily good information
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 12:13 PM
Yesterday

In fact, it could be dangerous and backfire badly.

Depending on why you were pulled over, the police are allowed to break your window out.

EX500rider

(12,250 posts)
7. Basically stay in the car with window down & hands in sight unless told to exit
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 12:34 PM
23 hrs ago

They have the right to tell you to exit, see Pennsylvania v. Mimms and refusal to get out can get your window broke & you dragged out.


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pennsylvania_v._Mimms

OMGWTF

(5,038 posts)
14. When ordered to get out of your car, lock the door behind you. It becomes another 4th Amendment blockade and the cops
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 01:22 PM
23 hrs ago

can't get into it without a warrant or probable cause.

EX500rider

(12,250 posts)
19. If they don't have permission or probable cause
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 03:30 PM
21 hrs ago

Nothing they find will stand up in court so I don't see the point in locking the doors

36. If they can make up any reason to arrest you
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 08:20 AM
4 hrs ago

Then they can have the vehicle towed and impounded.

Then they don't need a warrant or consent. They call it an "inventory" of the vehicle's contents instead of a "search". The "inventory" is done to protect your property, of course.

RandomNumbers

(19,087 posts)
41. Yeah, if I haven't had any dopers in my car, I don't see any reason for not letting them search it
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 11:12 AM
1 hr ago

I guess they could plant something but if they're that dead set on getting me, they're gonna figure out a way anyway.

Seems like locking the door behind me would just piss them off.

Anyway, at least for now, I don't see any issue with actual police. ICE would be a different story, but luckily I'm the right shade of pale and was raised south of the Mason-Dixon line so can put on the proper drawl if needed. (The only time I haven't talked my way out of a ticket was a VERY ill-advised u-turn in an unfamiliar area where I saw the "no u-turn" sign ... and the cop, sigh ... too late. I still think that particular setting was a trap for non-resident travelers).

littlemissmartypants

(32,522 posts)
8. It looks like an advertisement. I say situational awareness is the first rule of self defense.
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 12:35 PM
23 hrs ago

Every situation is different and deserves a separate assessment.

Cirsium

(3,553 posts)
9. In what neighborhood?
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 12:42 PM
23 hrs ago

In what neighborhood would any of this advice work? And for whom would it work?

"How to survive a police state when you are of the right ethnicity and in the right neighborhood."

AverageOldGuy

(3,499 posts)
10. Would be nice to have a written list of do's and don't's . . .
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 12:45 PM
23 hrs ago

. . . so we don't have to slog through a rambling YouTube video with a shouting, hand-waving narrator. Gave up after 15 seconds of it.

Jedi Guy

(3,440 posts)
21. Here you go.
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 03:50 PM
20 hrs ago

Stay in your car unless asked to exit. Roll your window down if asked to do so. Don't move around a lot as the officer approaches since they don't know what you're doing. When asked for your driver's license, tell the officer where it is and then retrieve it without moving suddenly. When asked for your registration and proof of insurance, tell the officer where it is and then retrieve it without moving suddenly. If it's in the glove compartment, open the compartment and then take your hand away so the officer can see the contents, then get your paperwork out.

If you get a ticket don't argue the point or try to litigate the issue on the side of the road; that's what court is for. Even if you think a citation is utter bullshit, arguing it on the side of the road gains you nothing. Stay as calm as you can.

Cops are generally very alert and wary when conducting a traffic stop since they have no idea whether you're going to be calm and polite or whether you're going to do something drastic. Traffic stops can go wrong in any number of ways and they're acutely aware of that.

If you're arrested , keep in mind that they don't have to read you your Miranda rights by default. They only have to do so if they intend to ask you questions. If they do read your rights, don't provide any information beyond your name, address, and date of birth. Do not, under any circumstances, answer questions without an attorney present.

mucholderthandirt

(1,769 posts)
24. I used to get a lot of reels about how people act when a cop pulls them over, or otherwise approaches them.
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 07:21 PM
17 hrs ago

A cop has the right to ask you to roll the window down, and to be shown your license and registration. Do not provoke them, obey all lawful orders. Get out if told to, do not if told to remain in the vehicle.

Don't ask them what you did wrong, don't claim you didn't do anything wrong, don't claim sovereign citizenship rights, or curse them or attack them. Stay calm, obey all lawful orders. Don't demand to keep your phone, or try to call anyone, or generally act like an asshole.

Apparently you can ask to have a supervisor come to the scene, but it's not going to change anything if you've been detained, or worse still, arrested. You're still going down to the jail to be processed. You'll have your chance to defend yourself in court.

I'm not convinced that ICE has the right to accost you unless you have broken any law, without a valid court warrant. They are not here to harass citizens who are exercising their Constitutional rights, including the right to be on any street and to decide to turn around and leave. But I'd guess we need a lawyer to give actual advice on that.

Jedi Guy

(3,440 posts)
34. To the best of my knowledge, ICE aren't cops in the way we normally think of them.
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 04:07 AM
8 hrs ago

So as far as I know you're correct in that they can't stop you or hassle you unless they have some kind of immigration order involving you or probable cause to suspect that you've broken immigration law in some way. They only enforce immigration law, not speed limits and such.

That said, if I were out driving and an ICE vehicle got behind me and lit up its lights, I'm going to pull over... in a well lit, populated area. Refusing to stop or trying to get away isn't going to end well.

But as we've seen, telling them we're not mad at them or just being in their general vicinity also might not end well. Given recent events I'd be nervous around ICE agents in a way I wouldn't be around a state or local cop.

Jedi Guy

(3,440 posts)
33. They could, yes.
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 03:58 AM
8 hrs ago

But they're going to ask you to lower the window so they can talk to you. You don't necessarily have to lower it all the way, though. You could lower it halfway so it's enough to talk and pass your license and such through the gap but not so low that they could easily reach in.

As a practical matter they'd only likely get you out of the car to search you for weapons, which on your bog standard traffic stop should be fairly unlikely, especially if you keep your cool. Getting someone out of a car on the side of the road is risky for both the officer and the driver so in a normal stop it's not very likely.

On that note, if they should happen to ask you to exit the vehicle that's considered a lawful order under Pennsylvania v. Mimms. Refusing to do so is just going to escalate things, potentially to the point of them forcibly removing you from the car.

As someone else noted, you can put your hazard lights on when they initiate the stop and then pull over in a place that's well lit and has other people around, like a gas station.

RandomNumbers

(19,087 posts)
43. Question - if it's likely a traffic stop, why not just roll down the window before they even walk up?
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 11:29 AM
1 hr ago

I mean, they don't ever just pull someone over and then NOT ask for the window down, right?

Every time I've been stopped (thankfully not recently at all), it's taken the cop a seemingly interminable time to step out of the car and approach. I presumed they were running my plate, and finding out that I'm probably clean. Is that process faster these days?

Anything I can do to make a traffic stop go faster, I want to do. If I legit did something ticket-worthy, just write the damn ticket and give it to me. If it's a speeding thing I can (at least, could in the distant past) usually make it go away if I wasn't too much over, but other than that it isn't worth my time and the potential risk of pissing them off to spend any time discussing it.

Assuming the weather permits, I would usually roll down the window, turn off the radio, put hands on the wheel and wait. When they walk up, if opportune I will greet them pleasantly. They're gonna tell me why they stopped me. If it's not legit I'll deal with it later. I agree with informing them clearly where you are reaching before doing it, to get any paperwork they ask for, and doing that slowly.

I guess in some places and depending on your skin tone (sigh), perhaps it doesn't apply, but I've never had any problem with local or state ACTUAL police. They have a job to do and most of them are normal decent people just trying to do it the way they're supposed to. If you draw the bad apple that day, don't do anything to make the situation worse, is all, and you will probably live. (I would advise not making any traffic errors while having a gun in your glovebox ... for me, easier to not have a gun in the glovebox ...)

NowsTheTime

(1,269 posts)
11. Good luck rolling the window up & locking the door ...instead simply state that "I do not concent to any searches"
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 12:54 PM
23 hrs ago

Zackzzzz

(307 posts)
18. Yes, You start rolling up your windows before getting out.....
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 01:48 PM
22 hrs ago

What could go wrong?

Or do you leave the windows down,
turn off the motor, then lock the car while getting out
taking the keys with you?

Staph

(6,456 posts)
17. The exception to everything he said....
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 01:41 PM
22 hrs ago

is if you are a woman, driving alone.

I was told by a sheriff's daughter some advice from her old man. If you are a woman driving alone, especially at night, and you see flashing lights directly behind you, turn on your flashers and drive to the nearest populated area - a gas station, a store parking lot, whatever. If you know where there is a nearby police station, go there.

Turning on your flashers says "I see you". Going to a populated space may keep you from getting raped or worse.

That advice is 30 years old, but I still think about it when I see a police car coming up behind me. Thankfully, I've never had to use it.


EX500rider

(12,250 posts)
23. Also bad advice in my opinion
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 06:09 PM
18 hrs ago

There's plenty of videos on YouTube with people who didn't pull over in the first couple blocks having their car rammed off the road and arrested for fleeing and eluding.

MichMan

(16,819 posts)
26. I live in a rural area where the closest populated area might be 10 miles away.
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 10:02 PM
14 hrs ago

Seems like the police would be pretty angry if I didn't pull over for ten miles

chia

(2,764 posts)
27. I haven't forgotten the murder of Cara Knott by on-duty CHP Craig Peyer in 1986
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 10:14 PM
14 hrs ago
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Cara_Knott

On the night of December 27, 1986, twenty-year-old Cara Knott was driving south on Interstate 15 from her boyfriend's home in Escondido, California, to her parents' home in El Cajon when Craig Peyer, who was on duty in a marked California Highway Patrol (CHP) vehicle, directed Knott to pull off the freeway on an isolated, unfinished offramp.[7] It was later discovered that Peyer also had been harassing several other female drivers in the same area by pulling them over on the same offramp, supposedly trying to pick them up as dates. In the Knott case, it was believed that the situation escalated to physicality when Knott threatened to report Peyer for his inappropriate actions. When he attempted to grab her, she slashed and scratched at his face. Peyer then bludgeoned her with his flashlight and strangled her to death with a rope.[8] He then threw her body over the edge of the Los Peñasquitos Creek Arch Bridge, where she fell into the brush below.

EX500rider

(12,250 posts)
22. I don't find it very good advice in my opinion
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 06:07 PM
18 hrs ago

Nothing says I have something to hide in the car like getting out and quickly locking the door, giving him an excuse to call for a dog to come sniff around your car and then get into your car due to the dogs alert if you had something to hide, and if they search your car without probable cause or your permission it won't stand up in court anyway but the dog alert will give probable cause

Bluetus

(2,452 posts)
28. It is probably good legal advice for a routine traffic stop, but it will not work with ICE
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 10:29 PM
14 hrs ago

I hope you are not suggesting this will somehow cause ICE to behave differently.

My advice (I'm not a lawyer) is to immediately call 911 just as soon as you feel threatened. You want your voice recorded on the 911 systems. Clearly tell the 911 operator that you are being assaulted by an unidentified person wearing a mask and threatening you with a gun, and please send an officer immediately. And follow the instructions that the 911 operator gives you. Chances are good that if ICE knows they might themselves be arrested, they will move on before the police arrive.

Understand that in every state AFAIK, assault does not require any physical contact. Assault can include threatening behavior. If you live in a state that Trump is attacking, you may get police to respond. If you live in Texas or someplace like that, I doubt that the police will help, but at least you will have your part of the story on record, which could be helpful if it goes to trial.

MichMan

(16,819 posts)
29. "Understand that in every state AFAIK, assault does not require any physical contact."
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 11:11 PM
13 hrs ago

"Assault can include threatening behavior."

That would also mean that the Federal government has grounds to arrest protesters that exhibit behaviors that ICE agents find threatening. Even when there hasn't been any physical contact.

Bluetus

(2,452 posts)
30. That is the law. But the difference is the police don't get to decide that.
Sat Jan 31, 2026, 11:45 PM
12 hrs ago

That is why we have courts. Right now, ICE is acting as judge, jury, and quite literally, executioner.

Put the two ICE agents who executed Pretti (still unnamed but on administrative leave) on trial. Let the jury decide if Pretti, who was subdued on the ground with his gun removed was a threat to the agents. I guarantee you that the jury will find that it was the agents who were threatening. But go ahead and defend ICE with your hypotheticals. I will continue to call for a trial to decide this.

While you are at it, tell us why you don't think ICE should identify the executioners.

MichMan

(16,819 posts)
37. I was merely responding to your hypothetical with another one
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 09:43 AM
2 hrs ago

Do have any real examples of people taking your advice of calling 911 when they feel threatened by ICE that a) resulted in ICE being arrested by local police or b) ICE being intimidated by the mere act of calling and thus fleeing the scene?




MichMan

(16,819 posts)
39. OK
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 10:11 AM
2 hrs ago
On Friday, the St. Peter police chief did not respond to additional questions about his involvement in the incident, but on Saturday, the city of St. Peter put out a statement denying that the chief intervened on the resident’s behalf.

“The Saint Peter police department did not participate in, coordinate with or intervene in any federal enforcement activity,” the statement said.

”Federal immigration authorities dropped the individual off at the police department. Police Chief Grochow then ensured the resident was safely transported home and offered assistance, as we would for any member of our community,” it added.


They didn't mention anything about the ICE agents being arrested

Bluetus

(2,452 posts)
40. I never said that
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 10:59 AM
1 hr ago

A) The Philadelphia DA and Sheriff very definitely are talking about arresting ICE agents.

B) What I said was, "Chances are good that if ICE knows they might themselves be arrested, they will move on before the police arrive."

I don't know what is complicated about anything I have said here. I repeat:

1) Assault is a crime.
2) AFAIK, in every state, it can be assault if a person simply acts in a threatening way and if the ICE agents have a prior record, this can be upgraded to a felony in most states, without them even touching you.
3) If one feels threatened when ICE are nearby, call 911 and get your words, and hopefully ICE words, on record. If the ICE goons understand the real police may be coming, chances are they will clear out rather than continuing the assault.

MichMan

(16,819 posts)
42. Several elected officials have talked about arresting ICE agents "If they break laws"
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 11:24 AM
1 hr ago

Performative hypothetical threats that really don't mean much, since I haven't heard of any ICE agents being arrested yet by either local or state police. What laws are they referring to?

One could assume that they either a) aren't serious about following up with any arrests, b) they haven't found any instances where any laws were broken, or c) know that they don't have the authority to arrest Federal agents performing their duties on the job.

Bluetus

(2,452 posts)
45. I have already identified the laws for you. There are many others
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 11:43 AM
49 min ago

such as impersonating a police officer.

In the city of Philadelphia, it is now breaking the law to not identify themselves, to wear a mask to conceal their identity, or to do any policing action that is not related to a specific judicial warrant. You can call that performative art if you want to, but you can't say it is invalid when the law was only passed last week. I am sure the Sheriff and DA will be very happy to never have to make any arrests and prosecutions because ICE is following the law. But they say they are prepared to arrest and prosecute. Every major city should be taking similar steps.

I guess is that many of the new ICE agents have criminal records, and they will be dropping out if they are forced to show their faces and face the possibility of a 3-year prison term for carrying out Stephen Miller's fantasy. You call the Phila Sheriff a performance artist. I call Steve Bannon/Miller performance artists.

MichMan

(16,819 posts)
46. I guess we just disagree
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 11:54 AM
38 min ago

I don't believe that a city has the authority to enforce restrictions or conditions on Federal agents sent there to enforce Federal laws. You believe otherwise.

I understand why they did it, but I don't think it has a snowball's chance in hell of surviving a court challenge if it was ever enforced.

RandiFan1290

(6,693 posts)
35. Won't happen in reality.
Sun Feb 1, 2026, 07:25 AM
5 hrs ago

They will not allow you to shut your door when you get out.
They will grab both your arms and place themselves in between so you can't shut the door.

I've seen plenty of videos where people try and then they are charged with hitting the cop with the door.

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