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PeaceWave

(1,712 posts)
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PJMcK

(23,946 posts)
1. I hate them
Fri Jul 18, 2025, 03:04 PM
Friday

They’re silly and don’t communicate complexity at all. They’re too informal and childish.

I’m old school. And old.

hlthe2b

(110,701 posts)
3. I agree. I hope (for their sake) that GenZs are seeking to be hired by other Gen-Z employers...
Fri Jul 18, 2025, 03:20 PM
Friday

They might not find that so acceptable by Millennials, Gen-X, or Boomers.

I'd overlook it if they could write in grammatically coherent paragraphs, spell, meet deadlines, and make appropriate eye contact. I'm not trying to smear an entire generation, but those I have mentored have real issues with all of the above.

Sailingdiver

(266 posts)
2. Yes they are, I loathe them
Fri Jul 18, 2025, 03:14 PM
Friday

Yes, I see them used all the time in, what I consider, the most inappropriate places.

I had a vendor I was working with who used them all the time when we were negotiating a contract.

He didn't seem a Gen Z, but he insisted on using them all the time. I eventually had to ask him to stop because I couldn't understand what his intent was with each emoji and I wasted hours going back and forth seeking clarification. It takes long enough just clarifying language and now I had another level of interpreting the emoji, hours of my life I'll never get back.

There may be a place and time for an emoji in personal chats, but not in business.

Old guy here who still puts two spaces after a period.

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Stuckinthebush

(11,164 posts)
7. You'll pry that extra space for my cold, dead hands!
Fri Jul 18, 2025, 04:05 PM
Friday

I can't change that. My thumb automatically does the two hit. If I try the one hit my hand stops and my brain screams.


Iris

(16,512 posts)
5. GenX.here. I use them all the time.
Fri Jul 18, 2025, 03:39 PM
Friday

At least when communicating with my direct reports - most of whom are much younger than me.

But, also, I focus on relational and transformative leadership so my goal is to be less intimidating and more approachable.


Gore1FL

(22,551 posts)
6. They are built into Teams and Outlook. nt
Fri Jul 18, 2025, 03:50 PM
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Torchlight

(5,150 posts)
8. My high school gf dotted her i's with heart-doodles
Fri Jul 18, 2025, 04:20 PM
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and I never failed to turn in homework papers without at least one Led Zepp logo drawn inside somewhere. I was 16 though.

synni

(472 posts)
9. Business communications? Absolutely not.
Fri Jul 18, 2025, 04:22 PM
Friday

For personal communications and social media, they're cute.

LearnedHand

(4,815 posts)
10. Yes absolutely, if you know when emoji use might not be appropriate at the time
Fri Jul 18, 2025, 04:50 PM
Friday

I.e., mostly yes to comms with colleagues and team members; maybe to managers, depending on the situation; probably not in client relationships or comms to grandmanagers. I appreciate the whimsy and also the range of subtle emotions you can convey with an exquisitely chosen emoji.

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