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flvegan

(65,425 posts)
63. So confronting this MAGA cousin like this is going to
Sat Jun 28, 2025, 01:19 AM
Jun 2025

"support" your wife, then?

Ok. Might best to just be present and stay quiet if that's the reason.

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MAGA has driven a stake into the soul of America Arazi Jun 2025 #1
I agree... kentuck Jun 2025 #4
MAGA has diminished the US in every way Arazi Jun 2025 #10
Yes! People don't want to come to America anymore. We are in a deep recession when it comes to international travel and Doodley Jun 2025 #17
The most disgusting and stupid piece of shit on earth Eliot Rosewater Jun 2025 #76
"With all I have respect, my position is MAGA people have not researched... chouchou Jun 2025 #2
How about taxi Jun 2025 #3
Good one! Doodley Jun 2025 #18
Yes, great point, and to put it more bluntly, TheProle Jun 2025 #49
By the time you learn the truth, it will be too late. kentuck Jun 2025 #5
MAGA is against both the US Constitution and the Bible. haele Jun 2025 #6
Good points! Thanks. Doodley Jun 2025 #19
MAGA does not believe in the rule of law. surfered Jun 2025 #7
Quote Stephen Colbert to him, just don't tell him who said this: A HERETIC I AM Jun 2025 #8
Yes, Jesus didn't ask to see anyone's paperwork before helping them. Doodley Jun 2025 #20
MAGA should read the Constitution. Vinca Jun 2025 #9
Tell them you agree with Trump's green nuclear power position, measure knowledge and response uponit7771 Jun 2025 #11
Good idea! Doodley Jun 2025 #21
I would say "Sorry, we can't meet tonight. I don't hang out with fascist trash." Prairie Gates Jun 2025 #12
I would like to do that! Doodley Jun 2025 #22
Bingo! UTUSN Jun 2025 #28
I do not support fascism, racism, misogyny, or homophobia, and it hurts my heart that you do. cadoman Jun 2025 #13
Good ideas. I will make it in the third person, so I will say: "I don't understand the hate many MAGAs have, I Doodley Jun 2025 #23
That's weasel wording. It's not true that vanlassie Jun 2025 #39
Well, there IS that. calimary Jun 2025 #78
Our ancestors fought Nazis in WWII, and MAGA has become the very same, very unAmerican people. Efilroft Sul Jun 2025 #14
I'd have to first question why I'm "meeting a MAGA tonight" before flvegan Jun 2025 #15
Wife's cousin. I have to support my wife because I love her, and won't support her by boycotting her family. Doodley Jun 2025 #25
I still would not do it. Wifes husband Jun 2025 #53
That's how I was thinking, but I went it was okay. Doodley Jun 2025 #64
I had a simular experience with my brother in law Wifes husband Jun 2025 #83
So confronting this MAGA cousin like this is going to flvegan Jun 2025 #63
I have caused family gatherings to end badly. I have to walk the line. Doodley Jun 2025 #66
Fox news is lying to you Tribetime Jun 2025 #16
And they had to pay 3/4 of a billion $$ for lying to their audience. -nt CrispyQ Jun 2025 #59
I hope they have to pay the same again to Gavin Newsom! Doodley Jun 2025 #67
"Would you let ICE deport a US citizen if they looked a certain ethnicity?" sakabatou Jun 2025 #24
they put Trump above country Skittles Jun 2025 #26
Do you think it is acceptable Brenda Jun 2025 #27
That is a good question. Doodley Jun 2025 #68
I can't think of anything that Trump has done, or proposed to do, to help Americans live a better life, except perhaps.. FadedMullet Jun 2025 #29
I believe in checks and balances. Qutzupalotl Jun 2025 #30
Very good question! Doodley Jun 2025 #69
FWIW, since it's family, I would avoid a political discussion... anciano Jun 2025 #31
That's what a good German would do. CrispyQ Jun 2025 #60
I agree with your sentiment. I have caused many bust ups in family gatherings, but what does it achieve? Nothing. Doodley Jun 2025 #70
ICE agents wear masks to hide their identities and they refuse to show ID. Lonestarblue Jun 2025 #32
Take the opposite approach and crank up the crazy to 11 Kaleva Jun 2025 #33
That's where we're heading. Doodley Jun 2025 #71
The only problem there is - they won't get it. calimary Jun 2025 #79
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jun 2025 #34
I just avoid politics with my MAGA friends womanofthehills Jun 2025 #35
Sounds like your MAGA friends are polite and the OP is facing one who is not Arazi Jun 2025 #36
That is exactly what I am used to. Please see my updated OP. Things didn't go as expected. Doodley Jun 2025 #72
I saw that and well done! Arazi Jun 2025 #74
Agree. anciano Jun 2025 #37
MAGA and friend don't exist in my world Bluestocking Jun 2025 #45
I will not have a MAGA as a friend Wifes husband Jun 2025 #65
Since I had to meet with you, I did. gordianot Jun 2025 #38
I fill up with dread and revulsion having to meet some of my wife's family. Doodley Jun 2025 #73
No respect for the constitution and American values Mysterian Jun 2025 #40
"Sorry I can't meet tonight. I'm grieving for the Great American Experiment." Hekate Jun 2025 #41
Accept that you cannot accomplish this goal. Raven123 Jun 2025 #42
Why focus on why MAGA's wrong, instead of looking for common cause? snot Jun 2025 #43
Many good points. Please see my OP with an update of how it went. We found some common ground. Doodley Jun 2025 #75
Screw that Wifes husband Jun 2025 #82
Why are you all so angry? mcar Jun 2025 #44
When did you discard John Farmer Jun 2025 #46
Ooooooh, that's a good one! calimary Jun 2025 #80
They are taking over preserves and parks to build detention centers. kerry-is-my-prez Jun 2025 #47
Why on earth are you spending time with a MAGA? hamsterjill Jun 2025 #48
The tax cuts and tariffs are going to be a big loser soon. kerry-is-my-prez Jun 2025 #50
I agree with that! Doodley Jun 2025 #77
Mirror OC375 Jun 2025 #51
Be weary and self-reflective purple_haze Jun 2025 #52
If everything that the republicans do is okay with you UpInArms Jun 2025 #54
The billionaire class is stealing from the working class and the poor. berniesandersmittens Jun 2025 #55
Insult the bastard. Jirel Jun 2025 #56
I'd ask.... SuzyandPuffpuff Jun 2025 #57
Fuc ... drop dea ...er ... I ust can't do it. marble falls Jun 2025 #58
"It seems you are OK with hundreds of thousands Abolishinist Jun 2025 #61
Well . . . hatrack Jun 2025 #62
Ooooooooh, that stings. calimary Jun 2025 #81
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